Expert answer:
What you have is "chronic pelvic pain" is one of the most difficult situations to find a cure in gynecology, it is not serious (depends on the underlying disease). Most fellow doctors do not even know how to handle this situation. Both physical and emotional illness can cause pelvic pain. The ideal is an evaluation by a good gynecologist to know the cause and the appropriate treatment. In your case remedies for relationships (avoid pain later), post-relationship remedies (pain management) and long-term remedies (trying to "cure" or improve the problem) will be needed.