What is an orgasm really?

Orgasm is the ultimate moment of sexual pleasure. It is feeling about intense rhythmic contractions in the genital organ until it reaches the climax and after that, a certain relaxation of the body occurs. Orgasm can be felt differently. Some women can feel through the stimulation of their clitoris, in the foreplay or only through penetration. I recommend you have a conversation with your boyfriend on the subject, and who knows together learn to know each other's body and see the places you feel stimulated, excited, because in many cases orgasm can happen only from touch and not from the act yourself. Try to relax, have sex with affection, feeling, deliver the complicity of the moment. It is not a rule to have sex and to have orgasm, since many women take longer than men to reach orgasm, and it is no use pretending. Maybe he will try to hold you more and give you this moment, it is an alternative for you to enjoy and gradually you reach orgasm before him. Ideal is the two-way conversation to get to know each other in bed.